Twins-O-Rama

This is my online journal for blathering about life as a mother of boy/girl twins.

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Obla dee Obla dah

As the Beatles so aptly crooned, "obla dee obla dah life goes on...". Since my last post I put my big-girl panties on and filed for divorce. I have been in various stages of immersion in our glorious family court system ever since, and no one can ever truly prepare for the ridiculous experience that is created by our very flawed system. Having said that, it's not that I have not been granted fair judgement by the court thus far. Oh sure, the judge can declare all kinds of wonderful things-but just try to get the other party to cooperate (hysterical laughter). If you want the court rulings upheld, guess what? Back to court for more of the sideshow. That's fine if you have a money tree. Hah, and I was worried about my student loans.

Interestingly, the care of the heathens feels very similar to when was still living with the sperm-donor. I pretty much do everything, 24/7, and I never have sex. Well, maaaaaybe after the official split I did a wee bit of 'dating'. That cured me of the romantic notion that I would now be free to find true love. Does that make me a pessimist or a realist?